The beautiful kind talks Poly →
I found this post really interesting. I’ve had my times when I’ve been attracted to someone, but didn’t know how their primary partner felt about me making a move… I’ve made assumptions in the past, which have swiftly bitten me on the backside. I learned my lesson: ASSUME NOTHING! Just because both partners are poly, doesn’t mean that I don’t have to talk to the one I’m not attracted to, and check out how they are with the potential situation. It’s scary, but honest communication is at the heart of being Poly.